Seeing Another’s Perspective

We do not all think in the same manner, we have our own ideas and opinions in relation to how we see life to be going and what we do to live a life that may be deemed to be harmonious.

Whatever way we see to be acceptable for us to achieve life, is the manner in which we should be living it.

This means that while others will have their own opinions as to what we should do, we may not always agree with how this is going to be achieved.

As individuals it is therefore important that we accept others for who they are in life and the way that they want to achieve their lives.

We can at times be quick to place our doubts, opinions and judgements, on what we deem another to be doing, especially if we do not believe that it is in alignment with our soul.

This is what can cause disharmony within most relationships. It is the inability to see that, the way in which another chooses to live their life, has nothing to do with you, and is about them.

Listening to the different perspectives, may allow you to grow within life. It can help you to see another's viewpoint, and sometimes we may agree with this viewpoint and other times we may not.

As individuals we can become stuck with living in the perceptions that have been cast upon us. We start to believe that we have to live a certain way because that is what we have been taught.

We do not always see the beauty in being able to see our perceptions and stick to them. We are wanting to please another, and fail because we are not able to please ourselves first.

Nothing kills a relationship faster than not being able to stick to what it is that you believe to be true for yourself. If you are in charge of your life, then it is you that must decide how you view the world.

There will be elements that have been placed upon you, from childhood to the current day, and all of these elements will have an impact on how you see the world.

Becoming so bent in another seeing your way, is more detrimental to your own mental health. You can explain what your perspective is, however that does not mean that others have to agree with you.

In some cases you will find that others who can not see your perspective, will over think, over analyse, and make a case for you to see their way of thinking.

You have power to stay true to how you are thinking, what are you doing and who you are being. This is what makes you unique.

Allow others to question your perceptions that you hold true for you. However, do not expect them to understand your perceptions.

Expectations of others is what is most damaging, thinking and believing that others must follow our same line of thoughts and feelings is what can at times cause breakdowns.

I do not believe that having expectations is healthy within a relationship, as this at times can lead to disappointments within life.

In order for us to achieve the most we must see our perceptions as starting points to achieving much of the greatness which we have set out to achieve.

Changing our perceptions can be done at any time. There is no golden rule to completely sticking to what we believe without any changes being made.

In life we will be questioned, and this is okay. Allow the questions to come, as at times this may lead to us looking at life in a different manner.

We are all here to learn, so what one may perceive as being acceptable, another may perceive as being unacceptable. Listening to gain understanding without changing your beliefs is also acceptable.

In some cases people will only hear what they want to hear, and make choices based on this. It is not that they do not hear your perception and more that the level of their perception may differ from your own.

People are going to question your perceptions, and that will be alright as long as you remain true to what your perceptions mean to you.

We are all on a journey of self discovery, and part of this is discovering who you see yourself to be in any given moment. The perception of yourself therefore may change at any time.

As you begin to become more comfortable with the perceptions of yourself and what you see yourself to be, this allows a new type of mindset to be aligned with what you want to achieve for yourself.

Do not allow others to pull you into negative thinking, because they do not agree with the perceptions that you have. You know why you think the way you do and that you do and this is what matters.

There will always be negative and positive, what matters is how you perceive it. There is no right or wrong way (acceptable/unacceptable) to what you perceive in life. Your life is your vision.

Stand by what you say and mean it. You are an authentic soul with a clear knowing of what the truth (your perception) means to you. Continue on this path and new doors will open to you.

On a final note, we are all different, we all have a different way in which we perceive life. If we all looked at life in the same way, where would there be room for growth and development.

We cannot control the life of another, just like they are unable to control ours. Allow life to take you to new heights. Stay in the place in which life flows.

Love, Light and Blessings NSJ XXXXX

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